The first time you use a sex doll is a lot like driving a car for the first time—exciting but also a bit nerve-wracking. You might be eager to dive into the experience, but also have some doubts like “How do I use this?” or “What if something goes wrong?” Don’t worry—these concerns are completely normal. First-time use often comes with a few bumps in the road, but understanding common issues and how to solve them will make your experience smoother and more enjoyable.

If you’re ready for your “first ride,” let’s dive into some common problems and their solutions to help you have a fun and stress-free experience with your fat sex doll.

1. Material and Sensation Issues

Problem: When you first encounter your sex doll, you may find that the material feels different than you imagined. For example, silicone dolls might feel a bit too firm, while TPE dolls may feel a little sticky or overly soft. These texture differences can make you feel a bit uneasy, both mentally and physically.

Solution:

• Silicone Dolls: If your silicone doll feels too firm, try letting her sit in a warm room or gently wipe her down with a warm, damp cloth. This can soften the silicone a bit and make it feel closer to human skin. If the surface feels dry, apply a small amount of water-based lubricant to smoothen the sensation.
• TPE Dolls: For TPE dolls, make sure she is thoroughly cleaned and dried before use. If she still feels sticky, apply some baby powder or specialized TPE care powder to her surface. This can reduce the sticky feeling. Also, keep in mind that TPE dolls are sensitive to temperature and humidity, so adjusting the room conditions can improve the texture.

2. Joint Stiffness

Problem: When trying to adjust your sex doll’s posture, you may notice that her joints don’t move as smoothly as you’d like. This could be due to tight joints, or pressure during shipping that affected her flexibility.

Solution:

• Tight Joints: Don’t try to force her into position right away. Gently move the joints little by little to help them loosen up. You can also apply a small amount of joint lubricant (if you don’t have specialized oil, a little sewing machine oil can work) to help improve joint movement. Move the joints slowly to allow the lubricant to soak in.
• Shipping Issues: If the joints are stiff due to shipping, check for any visible damage. If there is no damage, carefully try to return the joints to their original position. Do so with moderate force to avoid causing harm to the doll.

3. Private Area Experience Issues

Problem: When first using the doll’s private areas, you might find that the size doesn’t feel right, or the internal texture is uncomfortable. For instance, it could feel too tight or too loose, or the design might feel unnatural.

Solution:

• Too Tight: If the private areas feel too tight, use more water-based lubricant and start slowly with more shallow contact. Gradually work your way deeper as your body adjusts.
• Too Loose: If the sensation feels too loose, you can use elastic liners or padding to help fill the space and make it feel more snug.
• Uncomfortable Internal Texture: If the internal texture feels unnatural, it could be a design issue. You might want to consider getting a doll with a different internal design, or modify the existing doll with soft, ergonomic padding to improve the comfort of the experience.

4. Psychological Discomfort

Problem: Even though you’ve decided to use a silicone sex doll, you may feel uncomfortable due to moral, ethical, or psychological reasons when actually using her. Feelings of shame, guilt, or anxiety can be quite common for first-time users.

Solution: First of all, recognize that this is a completely normal reaction. Adjusting your mindset is key. Understand that this is a personal, private choice, and there’s no need to feel ashamed. Make sure you’re in a private, undisturbed environment, which can help alleviate anxiety.

If you still feel uneasy, it might be best to pause and wait until you feel more mentally prepared. Alternatively, you could reach out to others who have had similar experiences (through legal and respectful online communities) to hear how they’ve managed their own psychological hurdles. This can help ease your mind and make the experience more comfortable.

5. Odor Issues

Problem: Some lifelike sex dolls, especially those made of TPE, may have a noticeable odor when new. This can detract from your experience.

Solution: After purchase, you can place your doll in a well-ventilated area for a few days to allow the odor to dissipate. If there’s still a lingering smell, you can use specialized deodorizing sprays or place activated charcoal bags nearby to absorb the odor. When cleaning the doll, you can also use scented cleaning solutions, but make sure they are safe for the doll’s material and won’t cause any damage.

Conclusion

It’s completely normal to face some challenges when using a sex doll for the first time, but don’t worry—they’re all fixable. With the right tips and a little patience, you can overcome common issues like material texture, joint stiffness, discomfort in the private areas, psychological concerns, and odors. As you gain more experience, you’ll become more comfortable and confident, making each use even more enjoyable. Hopefully, this guide has helped you feel more prepared for your first experience with your sex doll, and here’s to many more fun and exciting moments ahead!

If you need more practical tips on using a sex doll for the first time, you can refer to the previous article: First-Time Use of a Sex Doll: 5 Tips for Comfort and Enjoyment.