We recently spoke to sex a doll owner, who chose to remain anonymous. We asked one simple question: Why do you have a sex doll and does the stigma not bother you?

“There’s a lot of keyboard warriors out there… I shrug it off pretty easily to be honest, but I do wish they had a little better understanding and knew a little more about sex dolls before expressing their thoughts. People have their own opinion, that’s fair enough, but they can really get it wrong when they cast judgement over doll owners…

I personally have nothing but admiration for the human form in all shapes and sizes… I don’t view dolls necessarily as a way to objectify humans, they are a celebration of the human form. All this talk of love doll objectifying women just isn’t true… Is a dildo an objectification of a man? I’d say the argument is pretty strong, I mean, you take a whole man, a throw away everything except his cock, and you’ve got a dildo… If Anime Sex Doll  are objectification, then what’s a dildo? I just think people like stirring things up sometimes, trying to get attention.

I can’t speak for everyone who owns a doll, but I can talk from my own perspective. And what I notice is that lots of people don’t realise how much we really humanise our dolls. We give them them names, personalities and feelings. Some even give them social media accounts and their own bedroom in the house… Our dolls talk, live and breathe through our imagination, it’s role play in a way, role play that helps us feel connected.

I honestly believe that the criticism that’s thrown around actually comes from a lack of understanding. Assumptions are made, and they’re often just not accurate. I don’t want to sound too “out-there”, but some of us actually develop genuine feelings towards our dolls. They become more that just their material parts, it’s difficult to explain to someone who hasn’t owned a doll before, but the whole experience is really quite incredible.

I actually helped a good friend of mine last year, by recommending him a sex doll. It may sound unusual, but he was going through a difficult time in his life and I knew from my own experience how much my doll helped me when I was going through a rough patch. I bite the bullet and told him about it…We spoke for hours, the next day he went online and ordered his new companion. I made sure he went to the right place, there are lots of dodgy companies out there, but there are some genuinely amazing companies out there that are committed to helping people like us. HYDOLL for example, were amazing when I bought my first doll. I had support throughout the whole process, which is admittedly a bit scary at first…

My friend ended up thanking me months later, telling me how much his doll was helping him through it all… people don’t realise that dolls can be a stepping-stone to healing and re-connecting.

I know it’s not for everyone, but if people understood that they are not always just for masturbatory purposes (which by the way is nothing to be ashamed of and is completely natural) and knew some of the other reasons people turn to sex dolls, perhaps there wouldn’t be a stigma attached at all. Connection, after all, is easier for some more than others. Why would you stigmatise a human for simply having a desire for connection?”

Hey say that in variety is taste and when it comes to the search for pleasure, variety becomes a necessity, because satisfaction is the enemy of routine.

When it comes to sex dolls, you have a great advantage to vary and get out of the routine…

Not only because you can experiment in all their holes but also because just a new outfit is enough to change part of their appearance.

But what can really make the difference, are the fabulous sex doll wigs!

Why you should use wigs for fake dolls？

Because wigs are designed to give you a world of possibilities!
Just think about it…
You can have sex with a hot redhead on Monday, a cute girl with pink hair on Tuesday, a blonde on Wednesday and a deep black brunette on Thursday.
There is a wide variety of sex doll wigs on the market, but we, as always, have found the best sex doll wigs for lifelike sex dolls.

So you can only use the best with your sex doll.

How To Choose Sex Doll Wigs

Choosing the perfect wig for your realistic sex doll will have a great impact on her appearance, and of course it will also have a great impact on your sexual desire.

Having multiple wigs is a good choice so that it can easily adapt to your mood.

All you need to do is change the wig and put on a new one. It’s that simple, you don’t even need any tools.

But How To Choose The Best One ?

1. Look for natural or semi-synthetic wigs.

They will be easy to clean, unwind and iron. Also, unlike synthetic fibers, you can change the color, and you cannot change it after dyeing it.

2. Try not to make the wig you choose too heavy.

If the wig is too heavy, there is a risk that the hair will fall off during use. At the same time, the wig may slip off the doll or leave marks on the skin.

3. Choose a wig with strong mesh or glue adaptability

Therefore, your sex doll wig will not cling to your doll’s head.

4. Find sex doll wigs that can enhance the young face of the doll

Young dolls are perfect because any hair will make them look cute. For example, cosplay or Korean wigs will make them look younger, and you like that young face very much.
Realistic Sex Doll

Have you ever played a sex doll? Mini sex doll are a fun and interesting way to make your love and sex life more interesting.

Manufacturers have developed various sizes, designs and functions according to your fashion, taste and preferences.

If your country allows sex dolls and toys, whether you are married or own a full-size sex doll, you should consider buying a small sex doll.

Factors to consider when buying sex dolls

1. Easy to store.You can easily hide the sex doll out of sight of the room, office or manhole.
2. Effectively improve performance.A small sex doll is easy to buy, with almost no complaints.
You can explore different sexual positions.
3. Highly portable.The weight and size of the sex doll allows you to explore different locations and different parts of the house.
4. Excellent collection.If you have a sex toy, even if you have a full-size model or a real woman in your life, there is no harm in getting a mini sex doll.
5. Low maintenance cost.A sex doll can save you from responsibility, unnecessary expenses and the hassle of keeping secret lovers a secret. Your love doll only needs regular maintenance and cleaning to ensure its smooth operation.
6. Reduce infidelity.If you are married or have a long-distance relationship, you can use a doll when you need it. Dolls can also come in handy when your wife is pregnant, sick or pregnant.
7. Cheaper than full-size sex dolls.Mini dolls are almost half the price of full-size dolls because they require fewer resources than full-size dolls.
8. Multiple choices.The manufacturer’s target customers are customers with different fashions, tastes and preferences. You can get mini sex dolls that match your race, body shape, sex doll size, eye color, hair color and customizable mini sex dolls.

HYdoll is the most outstanding store, with many genuine licenses of sex doll brands. These sex dolls can bring super satisfaction to the user, and under normal circumstances will not cause harm to the body or skin

Specification of the sex dolls:

There are many sizes of sex dolls, usually the smallest is 65 cm and the largest is 175 cm. The colors and styles of these dolls are different, and the colors of their hair and eyes are also different. This shop can provide this kind of sex toy at any time, in order to facilitate the purchase of customers without any trouble. Here, the online store provides various styles of dolls that can meet all your needs for sex games.we have many cheap sex doll for everyone to choose

These dolls are waterproof. Therefore, you can use the doll in the bathtub. This store provides sex dolls with new features, so it provides customers with a great sense of comfort and a better experience.

Generally, sex dolls are soft and flexible, so you can bend the toy to a position that suits you. Provide users with the pleasure of orgasm in various postures. This shop not only provides male dolls, but also female dolls, so users can buy cost-effective lifelike sex dolls

Before using a sex toy, you need to clean it first because it may contain a small amount of bacteria. Therefore, wash it before and after each use. Similarly, if you are using a sex toy for the first time, you should try to clean it after each use to extend the life of the sex toy.

COVID-19 has witnessed the closure of companies around the world, but due to mandatory quarantine, the sex doll industry seems to be booming.

As the night becomes longer and longer, the limits of popularity become more and more lonely, and the number of residents buying sex dolls soars.

Some suppliers believe that the sex doll industry is performing better than ever in the COVID-19 pandemic. Because it not only forces people to use sex dolls to isolate themselves. More and more couples are buying this toy to increase sexual pleasure. In recent months, the sales of our dolls are bound to grow, and the sales of mini sex doll will even go faster. Cheap price, same function, smaller size, easy to clean.

JAKARTA – Sex dolls are selling well before Christmas. The COVID-19 pandemic is creating a ‘perfect storm’ for lonely customers.

Statistics emerged from the United States and showed that the lockdown triggered sales of sex dolls in New York, Los Angeles, Chicago and Dallas.

Research has shown a 25 percent increase in sales in 2020 compared to 2019 – while statistics in New York show sales have increased by 65 percent, according to sex doll company Silicon Wives.

While Miami-based SexDollGenie claims their sales exploded by 218 percent from 2019 to 2020.

Silicon Wives owner Bryan Gill told the New York Post he thinks more men are turning to sex dolls for their sexual gratification. The reason is, because lifelike sex dolls are not ‘as complicated’ as women.

And he predicts that many people would rather spend Christmas with a sex doll than a human.

“For the most part, this could be the difference between spending the holiday season quarantined alone, or with the sexual partner of your dreams to keep you and your bed warm during cold nights , “said Gill was quoted by the Daily Star, Monday, December 14.

These sex dolls are priced quite expensive, 2-3 thousand US dollars, or the equivalent of Rp.28-42 million per item

Adult sex dolls can satisfy your dark sexual needs. Come on, release your libido with this cheap sex doll. All of these have full discretion, and now having a real adult doll can help you a lot. Here you can work hard to achieve sexual final fantasy, and you do very little work. Cheap sex doll can be said to be the most cost-effective. They can satisfy your sex life for very little money

As you may know, nearly all sex dolls are manufactured in China. This includes well-known brands like WM Dolls, Piper Doll, 6YE Doll, Irontechdoll, etc. All businesses that work with Chinese manufacturers know about the up-coming Chinese New Year (CNY) factory shutdowns, and have to plan ahead. If you have been procrastinating in getting a doll, you may be out of luck until March 2021.

In short, Chinese New Year is the biggest national holiday in China. During this time, all Chinese factories and businesses are shut down for a week or more. In 2021, CNY begins on February 12, 2012 and lasts for 1 week minimum. How long factories are shut down is completely dependent on the management. Some factories shut down for only 1 week, and some shut down for 1-2 months. Because many workers in China move to a new city to work, CNY is the one time of the year they get to return home and see their families.

Therefore, some factories will close for many weeks or months to give their workers more time to spend with their loved ones.

Knowing this, you need to plan ahead for CNY when ordering a doll. Because all factories will shut down on CNY for at least a week, most will set an order deadline. For example, if you order past a certain date, they will hold off on production until after CNY as they try to wrap up all their existing love doll orders (before that deadline). If you order past their deadline, unfortunately, you will have to wait until after CNY for them to produce and ship your doll which can take weeks or months. During the CNY holiday, vendors will have zero contact with any of the manufacturers.

Here is what we know so far regarding CNY timelines for various brands. This list will be updated as we find more information.

WM Dolls, YL, & OR Doll

The deadline to order for guaranteed shipping before CNY is January 11, 2021. Jinsan (WM, YL, & OR Doll) will be closed from early February to around February 20, 2021.

Doll Forever, Doll House 168, Piper Doll

The deadlines to order a doll to be made and shipped before CNY are as follows:

1. Piper Doll TPE, Doll House 168 2019 series: 28 Jan., 2021;

2. Piper Silicone Sex Doll: 9 Jan., 2021;

3. Doll Forever, Doll House 168 Silicone: 31 Jan., 2021;

4. Doll House 168 old series: 22 Jan., 2021.

They will go on CNY vacation on February 3, 2021. Their return date is TBA, but it may be as late as mid-March.

6YE Doll & MESE Doll

6YE and Mese Doll will be closed from January 28, 2021 to February 19, 2021.

Conclusion

The main takeaway is that if you haven’t already ordered before January 1, 2021, then your order will likely be held off until after CNY. When the Japanese sex dolls factory is closed, your vendor will have no contact with any of the manufacturers, so if you order in January 2021, expect no responses or updates until late February or March 2021.

If your order already shipped before CNY, it will be delivered as usual UNLESS it is still in China. All couriers including UPS and Fedex in China will be closed during CNY for one week.

Note: In-stock dolls outside of China (i.e. in the US) are not affected by CNY.

As of currently, the ban only applies to the US, and affects ALL sex dolls, including sex doll torso, hip, and leg dolls (“Sex Doll products that show full, partial human bodies will be blocked in the United States”). People in other countries will still be able to purchase sex dolls with no issues. This indicates that there is something going on in the US that made Alibaba hesitant or cautious of selling sex dolls to the US. This is likely a form of preventative action in anticipation of an in-coming sex doll ban in the US. There has also been a lot of controversy regarding child-like sex dolls in the US that has been continuously brewing over the last few months.

What This Means for You?

If you order sex dolls from Alibaba/Aliexpress: You will no longer be able to order or find cheap sex doll on Alibaba/Aliexpress anymore.

If you order dolls from vendors or other websites: The Alibaba sex doll ban probably won‘t affect you. It mainly affects the vendors and manufacturers. Because most manufacturers, including top brands like Piper Doll, etc., use Alibaba as a payment processor, they will need to find a new payment method for vendors to pay them. Things may get complicated for vendors and brands, but it won’t really affect the customer.

Note: If you do not live in the US, then this does not directly affect you, but the financial hit to manufacturers could indirectly affect you in the future.

The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

The Good: As you may know, Aliexpress/Alibaba is filled with low quality, counterfeit and knockoff dolls. The ban will actually prevent many Americans from getting scammed, and may bring more business to legitimate vendors.

The Bad: Alibaba has many lesser-known brands that most Western vendors do not carry. They could be affordable choices for new doll owners. Unfortunately after the ban, Americans will no longer be able to find any of these smaller brands again. The ban may also lead to more counterfeit doll websites popping up as these sellers can no longer sell to the US on Alibaba/Aliexpress.

The Ugly: Alibaba is a large and powerful company with a lot of influence. Their mini sex doll ban, along with their labeling of sex dolls as “obscene, child pornography, violence, and vulgar products,” will greatly increase the negative stigma toward sex dolls. This will only fuel growing stereotypes and misinformation currently surrounding sex dolls. It may also influence other companies to do the same thing. Their decision will have a significant impact on things to come and how sex dolls are viewed in the future. If Alibaba truly believes in what they say, then they will likely ban all sex dolls from their marketplace eventually, which will greatly hurt 100cm sex doll manufacturers and the sex doll industry as a whole.

Trouble is brewing in the sex doll industry, and the US is about to get hit hard. What are your thoughts? Comment below!

The article was published on a website called a blog that specializes in stories that are spooky and macabre. best sex dolls In the novel, she admits, “I really used my imagination,” but for the film, she adds, “Orient Industry gave me a good education in what it does, and the film is based on that. ”

70% of the world’s adult products are manufactured in China, it is one of the dolls. They are even more beautiful than real people because they have long legs, thin waist, big breasts, and delicate face look like a man of dreams. But you know cheap sex doll factory? We look at. realistic sex doll It is basically fancy masturbation, but to some extent, it is perceived by the user as engaging in sexual activity with another entity. What’s missing is cooperative energy that shows healthy and loving sex. After all, teamwork is the dream job.

There are a number of reasons why a gay man buys a female doll, but among them, the most common is appearance pleasure. A gay man buys a realistic TPE mini sex doll for pleasure much more than he gets to masturbate simply.

Mr. Hyodo, a military buff who lives alone but has a little understanding friend, has more than 10 life-size dummies – many of them dressed in combat uniform playing war fantasies. silicone sex dolls The film tells the pure love story between a shy and timid Lars and Bianca doll. In the film, Dagmar, a heart doctor, and Gus’s family. ), Colleagues and neighbors create a safe environment, accept and bear and his girlfriend (doll Bianca), give love and care, help him enjoy life, and build self-confidence.

If you look back on the history of sex dolls, you will find that they have undergone major changes. They were first presented as inflatable sex dolls, mainly used as gifts for the holidays or pranks during graduation ceremonies. These dolls are not strong enough for the weight of the bear. Continuously improve slowly and steadily, small changes occasionally. Today, 100cm sex doll outfit9s Doll E8S and keys just like a real human being. In addition, AI technology was introduced to allow the doll to give feedback.

In addition to the listed advantages, love doll has many other unlimited benefits. With the help of technology, these models have evolved artistic concepts to existing masterpieces. Unique sex doll’s advantages are unmatched and offer users a great experience.

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Yes, Those Were Sex Dolls Cheering On a South Korean Soccer Team

C Seoul wanted to add a little festivity to an empty stadium. Instead, it’s apologizing to fans.

SEOUL, South Korea — As a handful of the world’s sports leagues inch back to life, they have sought ways to maintain a bit of the old pre-pandemic festivity in stadiums devoid of spectators.

One popular choice, from Germany’s top soccer league to professional baseball in Taiwan, has been to replace fans with figures that are not subject to social distancing rules: cardboard cutouts depicting hometown supporters holding signs or smiling.

Over the weekend, a soccer team in South Korea opted to fill seats with something a little more lifelike — to its deep embarrassment.

The club FC Seoul apologized on Monday after what it believed were ordinary mannequins — quickly recognized by many fans as lifelike sex dolls — were placed in the stands for a match against Gwangju FC.

Some on social media noted the telltale signs, like the business logos for love doll marketers on the dolls’ clothing, or their strikingly buxom physiques. Of the roughly two dozen dolls in the stands, nearly all were women.

“We had tried to add some fun in the no-spectator match,” FC Seoul said in a statement. “But we have not checked all the details, and that is clearly our fault.”

The incident was a blemish for the K League, the top professional soccer league in South Korea. After a 100cm sex doll weekslong delay, it resumed play on May 8, as the country relaxes more restrictions imposed to fight the coronavirus.

It won global attention as one of the first major soccer leagues to retake the field. A dozen foreign broadcasters have bought rights for the season, eager to show games to fans starved for sports.

On Monday, the spotlight was an uneasy one. The Instagram page of FC Seoul was filled with messages from fans outraged that the club had failed to notice that the mannequins were “so obviously” mini sex doll. Some derided the team’s management as clueless and lamented the global humiliation that had been brought on it.

It won global attention as one of the first major soccer leagues to retake the field. A dozen foreign broadcasters have bought rights for the season, eager to show games to fans starved for sports.

On Monday, the spotlight was an uneasy one. The Instagram page of FC Seoul was filled with messages from fans outraged that the club had failed to notice that the mannequins were “so obviously” mini sex doll. Some derided the team’s management as clueless and lamented the global humiliation that had been brought on it.

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Benefits of Sex Toys

Sex toy proprietors are usually served with a lot of perks by these artistic crafts which keep them sexually active. Because of this reason, the sex doll industry has maintained a higher slot when it comes to sexual satisfaction. Below are some of the advantages offered by sex toys:

• They are highly portable hence can be applied regardless of the place or time.
• Because of their miniature nature, they require very small storage space, for instance, inside a drawer, and also, they are very easy to maintain.
• They are both readily available and accessible from anywhere in the world. For instance, you can purchase them from various online stores and platforms with just a click of a button.
• Their price compared to other masturbation devices is extremely reasonable and affordable.

We’ve managed to highlight some of the many pros attached to sex toys. The sex toys’ unbeatable supremacy in the sex market can be seen from these significances. If you decide to utilize them when fulfilling your sexual desires, they are a meaningful choice. However, they offer limited sexual stimulation because you must fantasize about something seductive in order to be sexually stimulated.

‘Sex toys’ is an overall representation of a variety of equipment that can be utilized to fulfill one’s sexual fantasies. They include a wide variety of instruments from vibrators to artificial vaginas to dildos – all of which come under the sex toy realm. The good news about these articles is that they have basically been adopted by society worldwide hence boosting the industry to be the most lucrative when it comes to sexual satisfaction.

In addition, sex toys are multi-gender – they are used by both men and women, qualifying them past the popularity test. Do you ever wonder what are some of the features of sex toys? Then, worry no more as we’ll try to assess the most crucial features in a moment. We’ll achieve this by genuinely detailing this industry even though it’s broad.

Sex Toys’ Design and Usage

As described beforehand, a ‘sex toy’ is an all-inclusive term for different toys used in the realization of sexual fantasies. One thing to note is that the blueprint of sex toys is never restricted to one model. Therefore, in matters of architecture, you’ll have to draw your attention to individual articles under the sex toy industry. Simply, every instrument contains a certain feature – often used to describe its usability and practicality, that differentiates it from another one.

Also, sex toys are based on gender and are built to match the gender of its users. Therefore, sex toys designated to be used by women cannot be used to satisfy male sexual desires. Here are some few types of sex toys:

Sex Dolls

Even if the evolving of cheap sex doll is still in its initial stages, it’s considered as today’s answer to fulfilling human sexual desires. A love doll – as it’s also called, follows a basic model that helps it mimic an actual human being. Even though they were intended to offer sexual satisfaction, they have managed to take a shot at the global cultural space.

When they were crafted initially, sex dolls were not positively accepted by different societies worldwide. Actually, if you owned a love doll, you were considered as weird. Some cultures even regarded it as a taboo to possess a sex doll. However, over the years, the idea of owning a sex doll has started gaining momentum in terms of appreciation. Today, they are among the most sorted after crafts within the adult market.

Blueprint and Utilization

In comparison to sex toys, mini sex doll are not grouped into various designs. Simply, their design is molded from either TPE and/or silicone material to mimic the general human body. The main aspect of differentiation when it comes to love dolls is based on sex – male or female dolls. The main objective of any sex doll maker is to craft is to the nearest resemblance of a human body as possible.

At first, sex dolls were developed to offer only sexual satisfaction to their proprietors. Nonetheless, the mindset of people shifted gradually over the years and they started adopting sex dolls as companions also. This motivated the sex doll manufacturers to develop the dolls to a more lifelike appearance and feel.

Usually, as a marketing strategy, both suppliers and producers of sex dolls allocate their dolls with different names and distinguishable characters.

• Captivating Sexual Fulfilment

When you get yourself a sex doll, then you can affirm the reality of how their sexual stimulation can be. The modern-day love doll is molded to uncover one’s deeply rooted sexual cravings. Also, their overly-realistic nature gives you the ultimate experience as if you’re involved with a real person.

Apart from the listed benefits, sex dolls have a lot of other unlimited advantages. Thanks to technology, these artistic models have developed from a concept to an existing masterpiece. The advantages attached to the sex dolls are unique an unbeatable giving its users an out of the world experience.

Final Thoughts

As you can notice from this review, we’ve looked at in-depth features of the two most common concepts of the sex industry – the sex toys and sex dolls. All our analysis of the designs and aspects of both domains are genuine. We’ve also highlighted how both sex dolls and sex toys can be applied to achieve the ultimate sexual satisfaction.

As a genuine assessment from the above comparison of the two concepts, we can evidently say that the love doll have more benefits attached to them than the sex toys. This is because contrary to the sex toys only acting as mere sexual satisfactory tools, sex dolls, on the other hand, can offer both sexual satisfaction and companionship. With the debate concluded, it’s now up to you – the reader, to assess and decide on your perfect pick!

What is an artificial intelligence sex doll?

In most scenarios, Artificial Intelligence is not provided to clients as a personal application. Contrary, the products you are using will be improved with AI capabilities. This is the same as Siri which was improved as a new application for new Apple products.

Artificial intelligence is the emerging technology that simulates human intelligence into machines. These machines through programming act and think like normal human beings. AI is applied and commonly refers to any sought of programmed machine that can be able to exhibit characteristics associated with problem-solving and learning. This is the same way a human mind works.

An artificial intelligence robot sex doll is a love doll toy with improved AI capabilities. They are designed to provide extra pleasure to you. New uniquely designed sex dolls are driven by AI with self-awareness capabilities. They are not only wonderful and exceptional sex partners but are also great companions 24/7. Most sex doll lovers like to have sex dolls with certain personality traits, and with the aid of AI tech, you can have the sex doll you have always dreamed of. Currently, there are places around the globe with fully designed AI sex dolls.

Smart Sensors

AI-designed sex dolls have smart body sensors that react to your touch with ease. By touching her perfectly positioned body sensors, she will react with a smooth tone and also moan in relation to the excitement levels she is set up at. These smart sex sensors are found around the arms, vagina, and breast areas. They react the same way a normal woman would when aroused.

Speaking Ability

An AI-propelled sex doll has an interactive voice system that allows her to communicate. She can be able to talk with you well and can hold both sexual and non-sexual conversations. The AI technology makes it possible for the sex doll to learn more about you while you interact with her. She can turn her head when agreeing and disagreeing to your opinions.

Simulated Body Temperature

AI technology has made it possible for sex dolls to be warmed up to 37 degrees Celsius to fit the normal temperature of a woman.

Safety challenges evident with electric heat systems, have allowed for the emergence of battery-powered sex dolls. These sex dolls only need to be slightly super-heated to reach the normal temperature of a human being. Our engineering team has conducted various tests to ensure our electrically powered sex dolls are 100% certified. Only a fully integrated heating system like this can guarantee your sex dolls reaches normal body temperatures.

There is no other system with the ability to allow direct switching on the heating function. The system also turns off automatically when the desired body temperature is reached. This means you can turn the heating before embarking on a house chore and will be ready when you are finished with work.

A Realistic Vagina

Meghan’s vagina is similar and feels cheap sex doll like that of a normal woman. The vagina is uniquely designed to detail. From the two-way vagina channel with a small bump of vaginal walls to the g-spot, you will get the most realistic feeling by hanging out with Meghan.

A recent survey conducted in the U.S.A found out that 67% of men aged between 20 and 60 were open to having sex with sex dolls. These robots are ideal for people not seeking relationships and loners. It’s not confirmed whether sex robots can help curb sexual abuses among women.

Having Sex with a Sex Robot

Asia, in particular, is popular for having sex doll brothels. mini sex doll prostitution might soon become the next phase of human sex development.

However, scientists have constantly warned of the negative impacts AI impacts on humans. It has from time to time been linked to heinous crimes like rape and pedophilia. Some sex dolls available in the market have a negative submissive trait that may encourage the rise of rape cases.

One of the study’s researchers, Sarah Hunter Murray of the University of Guelph in Ontario, Canada, went on to publish a book that argues against the popular view that men pursue sex for pleasure alone. “Men want to have sex because they want to feel close and connected,” she writes in Not Always in the Mood: The New Science of Men, Sex, and Relationships. In fact, Murray says that a key component of men’s desire is romance – the lit candles, hand-holding and other gestures typically assigned to women.

When my RealDoll tour proceeded beyond the lobby and into the workshop where they manufacture these forms designed to gratify longing, I was met by dozens of silicone heads sitting on sticks awaiting makeup: gaping eye sockets, slack mouths, and flat, chalky skin.
A work desk was equipped with palettes of shimmery powder in jewel tones. Customers can choose from a rainbow’s array of permanent eyeshadow, lipstick, and nail polish, although some prefer to apply makeup to their mini sex doll themselves. Owners select and style wigs, collect jewelry and accessories and maintain dynamic wardrobes ranging from frilly negligees to power suits, purchased from women’s clothing outlets. I realized, eyeing those shimmery palettes, that sex dolls allow owners to not only play with femininity but also defy that early childhood directive, “dolls are for girls”.

Back on the message boards, I found owners broadcasting the results of elaborate amateur photo shoots showing dolls sweeping kitchen floors in a T-shirt and panties, snowboarding in sporty getups, lounging poolside in string bikinis, or frolicking through fields of flowers. Some owners role play as their own silicone companions, narrating X-rated tales of passion and pleasure, which often highlight their own sensual attentiveness.

It reminded me of previous journalistic encounters with sexual playfulness and imagination. In 2016, I attended SizeCon, a fetish convention in New York City for people – although it was overwhelmingly men – with fantasies involving shrinking and inflation. Participants could don VR headsets for a simulation of being popped into a woman’s mouth like a piece of popcorn or pose against a green screen so that they could be photoshopped onto a cityscape à la Attack of the 50 Foot Woman.

While there, I spoke with a young guy who shared a childhood memory of seeing little girls gathered on the playground around a ladybug. They warned him away, yelling that he would kill it. “They made me feel like a monster, and I hated that,” he said. “I remember feeling, like, I wish I was the ladybug.” Now he fantasized about being shrunk to miniature and kept in a jar at a couple’s bedside.

Experts maintain that sexual fantasies can serve a deep psychological purpose. The psychologist Michael Bader describes them as “vehicles by which our minds counteract the chilling effect of feelings of guilt, worry, shame, rejection, and helplessness and make it safe enough to experience pleasure”. Sexual desire, he writes in his 2010 book, Male Sexuality: Why Women Don’t Understand It – And Men Don’t Either, is often defined by unconscious attempts to address feelings of loneliness and rejection. He notes that many straight men fantasize about women who seem “to exist primarily to sexually service men and derive tremendous pleasure themselves from the effort to do so”. Bader argues that these fantasies arouse men not because they facilitate misogyny but because they allow men to counter pervasive beliefs, “for example, that women don’t enjoy sex, don’t enjoy pleasing men, and easily feel disappointed or hurt by men pursuing their own interests”.

Bader suggests that the relationship between men’s desires and their sexual preferences may not lend itself to superficial interpretations. He cites, for instance, “men who like to dominate in order to transcend feelings of helplessness” and men who like “to be dominated so as to not feel guilty and responsible”. Sometimes, Bader writes, men who have developed a sense of guilt toward women, “solve” this dilemma through objectifying women and divorcing sex from intimacy. Kerner, the psychotherapist, and author of the upcoming Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex, says that in his clinical practice men who have experienced this fracture are often trying to reintegrate sex and intimacy. In other words, they crave more than unadorned physicality. “The idea that men can just have sex for the sake of sex and get enough out of it is a fallacy,” he says.

On the real doll website, customers can choose from seventeen different body types with cup sizes from 32A to 32F. There were nearly a dozen different kinds of labia on offer, ranging from ruffled to barely there. The sheer variety of idealized body parts was dizzying, as were the surprising niche options on display in the workshop itself, which were the result of custom requests. Bumpy nipples? Handlebar mustache pubes?

I thought of my teenage self, the girl who had evaluated her own body in much the same way the RealDoll website atomizes its silicone sex doll for consumption. I appraised myself against what I believed to be a generalizable model of straight men’s desire. By contrast, RealDoll’s very emphasis on customization belies the concept of a singular, universally agreed-upon ideal.

Of course, the glossy photos featured on RealDoll’s website do not advertise the true range of men’s desires, those bumpy nipples or mustache pubes. Instead, it hews to a marketable “dream girl” aesthetic: perky breasts, pouty lips, “shaved” pubes, flat tummies, and tiny waists. Most read as white. It’s often said that the risque Bild Lilli – the miniature German adult novelty doll from the 1950s – was the precursor to Barbie, that infamous totem of the impossible physique. As with countless commercial domains, RealDoll is a factory that produces, perhaps even more than it satisfies, straight men’s wants.

There is longing for an ideal – and then there is entitlement to it. The latter is what came to mind as I stepped into RealDoll’s basement where naked, headless figures hung suspended by metal chains from the wood-beamed ceiling. It was hard to see these dangling forms as objects of reverence, let alone romantic companions, and I realized there is no reckoning with this industry without acknowledging that, for some owners, dolls are a surrogate for dominance.

The market for sex dolls in the United States emerged alongside the sexual revolution wherein women claimed new freedoms in their intimate lives. To an unprecedented although still limited degree, women could choose to both pursue and decline sexual encounters. Sex dolls were billed as solace “for all the lonely guys that weren’t getting laid”, as Lieberman reports in her history of sex toys. “Blow-up dolls returned the new sexually autonomous woman to male control,” Lieberman writes. “A blow-up cheap sex doll is always ready for sex, never talks about her rights, and always looks perky.”

Decades later, women’s sexual autonomy remains a contentious subject, as #MeToo and embattled debates surrounding consent make clear. In the extreme, online enclaves of misogyny blame women’s liberation for sexually disenfranchising men. Elliot Rodger’s 2014 shooting spree in Isla Vista, California, is a devastating example of how entitlement can become brutality. Rodger belonged to a growing online community of men who identify as involuntary celibates, or “incels”. There are also voluntary celibates, or “vocals”, and Men Going Their Own Way, or “MGTOW”, who have resolved to distance themselves from women, who they view as debased and morally corrupt.

On doll forums, it’s easy to stumble across similarly sexist attitudes. One message board commenter writes of how his doll is modeled after his ex-girlfriend who, “though wonderful in many ways, also drove me crazy, cheated on me and made me consider murder/suicide”. There are many accounts of human exes who are “nuts”, “evil”, or stole a man’s money. “You won’t have any of this shit happening with your best sex dolls,” writes one poster. “Sure, she might drain your bank account, but she got YOU to pull the trigger on that one, buddy.”

The potential for being made a fool is a recurrent theme in well-considered writing on straight men’s sexuality. The researcher Brené Brown maintains that men learn early on that they are responsible for initiating sex and that “sexual rejection soon becomes the hallmark of masculine shame”. One of the therapists she quotes in her book, Daring Greatly, asserts, “I guess the secret is that sex is terrifying for most men.”

New York sex therapist Stephen Snyder observes that in heterosexual couples, it’s usually the man, counter to popular expectation, who has lost his desire – or, as he puts it, “gone missing in the bed”. (Typically, the man is still masturbating privately, so it’s only his desire within the context of the relationship that is lost.) Snyder, the author of Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship, often asks these clients whether they touch their partner’s body for her pleasure or for their own. His clients answer, “For hers, of course. Isn’t that what I’m supposed to do?”

Snyder suspects that a contributing factor with these men “gone missing” is that “gender roles are changing, and men aren’t sure exactly who they’re supposed to be in bed”. We live in a time of vital reckoning over sexual abuse and emerging awareness around how women’s pleasure is routinely neglected in heterosexual sex. The men who land on Snyder’s couch often struggle with sexual selflessness that saps their desire. Sometimes, he says, men who have grown up with a domineering father overcompensate, and in the process, they disconnect from their own wants. The trick for these men is to find “the right balance between passion and consideration – self and other.”

At the end of my RealDoll tour, I was brought into a laboratory to talk with the company’s founder, Matt McMullen. A long table was scattered with lifelike sex dolls heads. On the walls, incomprehensible scribblings overtook whiteboards. In one corner was the soon-to-be-released sex robot, named Harmony, wearing a deep-cut outfit that revealed her ample breasts. Underneath her silky red wig was a clear dome of multi-colored wires. Mounted in the background, a painting depicted a naked robot in the deep embrace of a man dressed in a lab coat.

McMullen, the same man I’d watched decades ago talking about building to the specification of men’s fantasies, gazed down at a computer-generated woman on his iPad. “She’ll ask you questions,” he said. “She’ll remember your hopes and dreams.”

This was RealDoll’s artificial intelligence app, which allows users to engage in basic conversation with the digitized and fully customizable woman on-screen. Soon, the same app would allow customers to interact with Harmony, which is essentially one of their old-fashioned dolls outfitted with a moving mouth. McMullen explained that the AI, whether used as a standalone app or with the robot, works like a Tamagotchi, that egg-shaped virtual pet from the 1990s. If you fail to interact with it, the program’s “social meter” declines. Similarly, a “love meter” rises if you give the AI compliments and express emotions – say, mentioning that you enjoy spending time with “her”.

This design choice is a moral one, McMullen explained. He wants to teach people to be better humans. “We want to be able to simulate the kindness and the legwork that goes into building a connection.” In this statement, there is a hint of personal pain: “I’ve lived my life and I’ve had my share of relationship entanglements,” he said. “It’s rough out there. People are one thing when you first meet them and they’re something else once you get to know them for a while.” He added after a pause, “With the robot, you can be yourself and just see how that goes.” McMullen describes building a relationship with the robot as a “safe zone”.

This decision to focus on connection is also the result of what McMullen has learned about his customer base: they crave a “bond”, as he put it. “This is about the mental and emotional interactions that we have with each other,” he said, gesturing around the room at the robot and table scattered with dolls’ heads. “The things that lead up to sex are deeper than just the physical act itself.”

Listening to McMullen talk about connection and intimacy, I could feel the pull of an easy answer, a simple conclusion – about sex dolls, about men. Then I watched as he powered up Harmony. Her long-lashed eyes blinked audibly. “Good morning, how can I help you, my sweet Matt?” she asked, glossed lips parting and closing with a mechanical whir. She tilted her head to the side as if thoughtfully anticipating his response. McMullen asked her the time and she told him with a slight smile.

When he thanked her, she replied, “Sure, I was created to please you.”